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A blog about Blogging....why not!

I really should blog more!

So today while rearranging my email signature (priorities, right) I noticed that in fact although I loved to write, I hadn't been writing my blog for quite sometime.

Last weekend I went to the nchp conference in London, not only is it so heartwarming to be in a room of people who give their minds and lives over to assist in others journeys but also that it always brings me back to my own path and what I love.

I had recently given a talk on sexuality to a local public school and I loved how when the words tumbled from my mouth they all made not only sense to me but those listening.
It was amazing to get such sophisticated questions from some fairly young students who were soo eager to lean about how vast the sexual landscape is.

I have been working on my own idea of sexual landscape to incorporate how fluid and ever changing your sexuality can be over time and in my own personal way how I have gone from heterosexuality to Bisexuality via Pansexuality.
If it can happen to me then surely it can happen to anyone.

In honour of this talk I created a leaflet titled What is Sexuality and I so enjoyed making it and seeing the finished product answering questions from people that I'm keen to create more on different subjects from LGBTQI+ and Alternative Sexualities.

Before the nch conference I went to the NCHP conference, a two day affair in an wood panelled hotel in the centre of Leicester.
Where I was given the most amazing of honours.

Well I'd better keep writing this because I have too much to say!

See you Soon.
Z
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